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I heard one of  my frnd Pushp saying that there’s lot diff between love and marriage….Really I use to hear him but I never believed on his theory by hearth that time as if I never accepted his saying…. But I belive it now…why?? Even I don’t know…..

 Love is pure….this z very true….u never know when it is going to happen but it happens .ur heart doesn’t think abt caste, kundli and family, age, education..nothing…u just fall in love becoz u feel for him..

 My frnd Pushp explained me lot many times diff between this two…yesterday night I told him that yes I think he was right…love belongs to u….but ur marriage involves ur parents and hell lot of things…..while marrying smone u have to think abt ur elder or younger ones and ur parents ...but love ..u think nothing..not even a single bit ..u just love sm1 without asking ur parents…

 Lets point out some difference……I may be right or wrong…but this z wat I know nd I think::

 Love is simple marriage is complex…..

 Love is fortunate marriage is decision…

 Love needs nothing, not even d permission of d one to whom u love but for marriage u need his/her permission…Point naa…..valid point….Even God can’t stop u for loving smone hmmmm…

 Love can happen without meeting without talking ..but for marriage u need to meet, talk and know each other……smtimes we love smone with whom we never had chat, metting, phone calls..like d very famous one “ Love in first sight”..that doesn’t work with marriage.

 Love z always pure but not marriage ….many times marriages r compromises between two but love is never a compromise….

 Love happens once only…dat sensation will cm for only one but marriages u can marry n number of times he he he.. Yes of course after getting proper divorce

 Break-up is a term that can happen in marriages but not in love…Love never ends, never raze; I heard smwhere that it goes on and on only…

 So d million dollar question now come to pass that wat shd one do..shd he/she believe in love and express his/her love and then regret that his/her parents or whatever constraint stopped one from getting married….or if u feel u love smone… stop urself ther only, chk out with all options whether possible to get married or not and then let the second one know abt this….well this is a question in my mind..am not getting answer…probably life will make me to understand this…

For sm1 dreams r wat they want to accomplish in life, for others dreams r wat they can never achieve (like I dream->  5’4’’ height :) ) and for rest of the ppl dreams r their life. They r surviving for their dreams only. They think they r nothing without their dreams.

Dreams!!! Yes I too dream. First for this world I’ll call it as my social dream. I dream God shd gift each nd everyone with kindness (humanity). Noone shd kill nyone. Also I dream noone shd talk rudely. I hate when ppl talk rudely to ny1 or if they scold nyone. I think if I’m doing nythng wrong, my dearest one shd never get angry on me infact they shd talk to me politely (as am always ready to change myself if am wrong. Afterall nobody is perfect and I am nobody).They shd correct me but never make me to cry by hurting me.

It reminds me 1 incidence. Once I lied to my mom and she got to know tat whatever I told her was nt correct. I did so bcoz I though she z nt going to understand me. Now as she got that I lied to her. I was w8ing that when my mom will start screaming (blaming) on me. I was really w8ing that my mother shd scold me for this. That was really my fault I was nt supposed to do that. But shd has taken it lightly and didn’t said a single word to me.@ night I was crying hiding myself in pillows. Morning I asked her why she is not angry on me. My word to her r like”. Mom aap muze daate do tabhi muze accha lagega…aise accha nahi lag raha….chilla kyu nahi rahi ho muze”. She replied “beta u r grownup now so I am not angry on u”…smthing like that don’t remember wat she said xactly. And from that day this Poonam thinks that noone shd get angry on her. She feels proud that in this whole world at least her mom understands me.

Well coming back to dreams. I found that I njoy knowing wat ppl xactly dreams for. I njoy when my frnds share their dream with me. Smtimes dreams make ur aimless life full of …..(not getting xact word to write down here)

 I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long. If we're in each other's dreams, we can play together all night.

So happy valentine day to u all whor reading my blogs and thanks for reading it.…Now I discover smthng that  “Life without music is kindda no life” we shd at least listen 1 song a day and fully njoy it…well howz my idea…I think it gud to relax… just 1 song per day…Well am here to throw all crap of my mind ..so here I’am …suddenly I begin to realize the gravity of songs.they make  u laugh, relax, dream, remember ur past and wat not….songs r gr8!!!they give us life or reason to smile or cry!!! They r superb…I find out smthng gud in each nd every song ..some has gud lyrics, meanings, music. Or sm songs remind u of smthing special…..like when I listen song “Thoda hai thode ki jaroorat hai..” I feel that I learned the meaning of life. I always think that we shd always be satisfied of wat we have remembering that ther r ppl in this world …those even don’t have this much and we shd always dream smthng which we don’t have…The way I dream for a

 1) Blackcar, 2) Giving  world’s costliest mobile to my brother. And blab la..

I celebrated chocolate-week… last week….how?? telling u..just relax…1 of my frd came back frm London with tons of chocolate for me only J..cute naa… and I frustrated him like nythng asking every sec. abt my choclate…no matter where he is….whether he is  landing..his take off frm London..he is shopping there I use to torture him abt my chocolate …so he ended up with giving lots of chocolates to me along with  sweet gift for me….so my lunch, dinner, snacks , breakfast all starts and end with chocolate as I ve to finish it bcoz I demanded for it….

Atlast how I am…am just asking this question to myself…ppl say am crazy for small small thngs…well that’s true…ppl say am bachii..hmm that may be true no comments frm my side…ppl say am stupid.., short nd all crap. Well am still finding out myself….hell lot of comments I use to collect frm my frds nd I really njoy doing it…I consider myself not a simple creature of GOD.. yes am complicated one and mostly “A Confused Personality”…

Writing it in hurry...plz avoid typo if any.....