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09/06/2007

Love and marriage: different????

I heard one of  my frnd Pushp saying that there’s lot diff between love and marriage….Really I use to hear him but I never believed on his theory by hearth that time as if I never accepted his saying…. But I belive it now…why?? Even I don’t know…..

 Love is pure….this z very true….u never know when it is going to happen but it happens .ur heart doesn’t think abt caste, kundli and family, age, education..nothing…u just fall in love becoz u feel for him..

 My frnd Pushp explained me lot many times diff between this two…yesterday night I told him that yes I think he was right…love belongs to u….but ur marriage involves ur parents and hell lot of things…..while marrying smone u have to think abt ur elder or younger ones and ur parents ...but love ..u think nothing..not even a single bit ..u just love sm1 without asking ur parents…

 Lets point out some difference……I may be right or wrong…but this z wat I know nd I think::

 Love is simple marriage is complex…..

 Love is fortunate marriage is decision…

 Love needs nothing, not even d permission of d one to whom u love but for marriage u need his/her permission…Point naa…..valid point….Even God can’t stop u for loving smone hmmmm…

 Love can happen without meeting without talking ..but for marriage u need to meet, talk and know each other……smtimes we love smone with whom we never had chat, metting, phone calls..like d very famous one “ Love in first sight”..that doesn’t work with marriage.

 Love z always pure but not marriage ….many times marriages r compromises between two but love is never a compromise….

 Love happens once only…dat sensation will cm for only one but marriages u can marry n number of times he he he.. Yes of course after getting proper divorce

 Break-up is a term that can happen in marriages but not in love…Love never ends, never raze; I heard smwhere that it goes on and on only…

 So d million dollar question now come to pass that wat shd one do..shd he/she believe in love and express his/her love and then regret that his/her parents or whatever constraint stopped one from getting married….or if u feel u love smone… stop urself ther only, chk out with all options whether possible to get married or not and then let the second one know abt this….well this is a question in my mind..am not getting answer…probably life will make me to understand this…