06/26/2006
Frnds by Hearts…..Me n Viru…
This one I want to dedicate to one of the gr8 relationship I ever had in my life with my frd called Viru…plp says she changed me lot.. well I can say the best is, there was something hidden in me which I got 2 know with her aid..:)
We share lots of thinking in common. It always happened to us that we say the same word or sentence for a situation…
We both agree that there shd not be ny expectation in frdship n this is the key of our frdship……if u expect something it indicates u have some motive for frdship…so u’ll start asking ur frd for the same or expecting something from them….me n viru..we never expected nything from each other..i hardly give her company for lunch, snaks or nything..but yes..if I’m @ her desk or vice-versa n say waana go out for nariyal pani…we always there to give company…we hardly get time for each other but yeah whenever we r together we feel like very oldy frds.
The word frequency is really extremely important in frdship…I realize this…we don’t have frdship like “Made for each other” but yes….”always there for each other”
Few words she said to me …which I always bear in mind n which I wanted to pull together somewhere….
Yaar….tere bahut yaad aa rahi
Beeee…tu bahut bewakuf hai
Viru (5/5/2006 3:18:50 PM): bas abhi milne ka man kar raha meraViru (5/5/2006 3:23:49 PM): achi hai tu bahot
Viru (5/30/2006 3:36:46 PM): mujhe teri bahot yad aa rahi
Viru (5/30/2006 3:13:58 PM): poo - the philosopher
Viru (5/30/2006 3:20:04 PM): i luv u lot dearN one n only one..baar baar ye kehna… “ samza naa”
U know wat when I was departing frm Nagpur we talked to each other like….Areee..hum to ek dusare ko phone bhi nahi karege… hum dono bahut hi bekaar hai… this shows we never expected nything from each other not even a single phone call
The way she used to come to me n say aree yaar tu jaa rahi hai aur mein kitne bewakuf hu tuze kuch nahi de rahi….I love this….so simple so pure so touchy so clean..… wat else I need yaar….
Well the best saying that suited to our frdship is
“The best kind of a frd is one…With whom you sit on a bench saying nothing &..
When u get up n go,
U feel u have best conversation of ur life”
Whenever I read this it reminds me of Viru only..well just to make me @ ease in this new company n feel….that I too have frds I had one photo-frame of both of us @ my desk which… she only gifted me with lots of sweat…
Now she got married. I think for a moment that she will chng now but it doesn’t hurt me..bcoz I don’t expect nything from her..watever she is like… she is to me…
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Well....that's so nice of you Poo..that you remember someone so deeply.
Mera aisa manna hai ki jab bhi koi iss duniyan mein aata hai toh wo by birth apne saathe kayi relations carry kar leta hai jaise ki father,mother,sister,wagairah wagairh...matlab, unn relations mein se koi bhi uska khud ka banaya hua nahin hota....kewal Dosti hi wo ek khubsurat rishta hai jo wo khud nurture karta hai....
Toh doston ko yaad rakhan hi apne aap mein ek khubsurat baat hai....
I do appreciate and respect your feelings.
Posted by: Manoj Gangwar | 06/28/2006
You r lucky one getting such friendship (with out any expectation) ...but i give more value to the friendship which have passed all the test of expectation, misunderstanding ,fight .......then u need not to think again abt the friendship ...
Posted by: Ashok | 07/09/2006
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